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Lsel - Habit 5 (Draft 4) - 1
Lsel - Habit 5 (Draft 4) - 1
ESPIRITU, ANDREW G.
LORENZO, ROSALINDA T.
MALDO, JOVEN O.
HABIT 5: SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND,
THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD.
Influence others by developing a deep understanding of their
needs and perspectives.
Communicate effectively at all levels of the organization.
1. READING 2. WRITING
3. SPEAKING 4. LISTENING
“Your example and your character are the
key to influencing other.”
“The kind of person you truly are. The way
the other person truly experiences you.”
“Most people do not listen with the intent to
understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
2. Rephrase the content. It’s a little more effective, but it’s still
limited to the verbal communication.
3. You reflect feeling.
1. Evaluating: 2. Probing:
You judge and then either agree or You ask questions from your own
disagree. frame of reference.
3. Advising: 4. Interpreting:
Seek to Understood
- requires maturity. The balance between courage and
consideration.
• Ethos – your personal credibility, the faith people you have in your
integrity and competency.
• It’s the trust that you inspire.
• Pathos – emphatic side – it’s the feeling. It means that you are in
alignment with the emotional thrust of another person’s
communication.
• Logos – the logic, the reasoning of the presentation.
When you can present your own ideas clearly,
specifically, visually and most important contextually – in
the context of deep understanding of other people’s
paradigms and concerns – you significantly increase the
credibility of your ideas.
HABIT 5 is also:
Inside-out approach.
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Seek First to Understand… …Then to Be Understood