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Breaking Through Your Inner Glass Ceiling As A Woman Leader
Breaking Through Your Inner Glass Ceiling As A Woman Leader
Breaking Through Your Inner Glass Ceiling As A Woman Leader
- Profound Statement
" We are on the brink of a massive power shift ,a grinding of the gears of
history into a new condition in which women if they choose can seize the reins
of economic control"
Power Paradox ( Invisible Blocks)
SIKA’S JOURNEY
Self Disclosure
Professional Disclosure
MY MEANING MAKING FRAME
Isolation – “Keep to yourself and don’t let people know your issues”
How it showed up - Did not network or socialise
PATTERNS
(fears of women)
Think about the pattern that has been the biggest obstacle in the way of
your success, fulfillment and impact.
• Shame or Guilt
• Lack
• Isolation
ABRAHAM MASLOW’S HIERARCHY OF NEEDS
WHAT IS SELF ACTUALISATION
CONT….
• Shame or Guilt
• Lack
• Isolation
SHAME
Old assumptions:
Who we are
What is possible
SHAME or GUILT
Others put attention on themselves too and get offended when you
suddenly decide to presence your needs and desires.
Others are confused and / or hurt when you end the relationship without
explanation.
BELIEFS ABOUT OTHERS
You believe the world do not want what you have to offer
WAYS OF BEING THAT GENERATE EVIDENCE THAT
VALIDATES IDENTITY
You ask for what you want in ways that are attacking, defensive, demanding
or disrespectful
You disappear when you don't get your needs. (Rather than asking directly,
you hang in there and work it out)
You redirect the conversation to keep the focus on others instead of yourself
You feel as though you never have enough money, love, time, resources etc
You frequently find yourself burdened by too many obligations pulling you
in all different directions
EFFECT ON OTHERS
Others feel no matter how much they do to show their love and support
it is never quite enough for you.
Others feel frustrated and irritated with you when you take on more
than you can realistically deliver and let them down
BELIEFS ABOUT OTHERS
You believe others expect more from you than they do from others
You believe others expect more from you than you can realistically
handle
BELIEF ABOUT LIFE
You do things from a sense of obligation not because they bring you
joy
You rarely ask for support or you ask in ways that alienate others
(demand, whine, complain or ask with no clarity on what you want)
EFFECT ON OTHERS
Others assume you do not need anything from them assuming that you
have it all together
Others give up including you or they stop inviting you to events because
of the many times you are unavailable or fail to show up
BELIEFS ABOUT OTHERS
You believe other people don't give you what you need from them
You rarely participate in groups (prefer to lead the groups or stay on the
side line)
You don't make request for support even when you desperately need it.
You are overly loyal to people you have long overgrown because you fear
that letting go means you will forever be alone in life.
BREAK THROUGH /
TRANSFORMATION ROADMAP
Psychological shift
Convictional shift
Behavioral shift
DEVELOP REQUISITE SKILLS AND CAPABILITIES
Let go of control and allow others to see the real you so they can support
and love you
Create relations where the mutual needs of both parties (yours and others)
can be present and met.
CREATE DEEPER TRUTH STATEMENTS
SHAME
“I am deeply grateful for all that I have and profoundly appreciate all
that I am”