This document provides context and analyzes the poem "The More Loving One" by W. H. Auden. [1] It discusses how the poem explores the themes of unrequited love and indifference through an extended metaphor comparing the speaker's beloved to stars. [2] The speaker acknowledges that his beloved does not return his feelings and prefers to be the one who loves more greatly, even if his love is unreciprocated. [3] He comes to terms with living without his beloved and hopes that over time he will be able to appreciate life despite the absence of a return of his deep affection.
This document provides context and analyzes the poem "The More Loving One" by W. H. Auden. [1] It discusses how the poem explores the themes of unrequited love and indifference through an extended metaphor comparing the speaker's beloved to stars. [2] The speaker acknowledges that his beloved does not return his feelings and prefers to be the one who loves more greatly, even if his love is unreciprocated. [3] He comes to terms with living without his beloved and hopes that over time he will be able to appreciate life despite the absence of a return of his deep affection.
This document provides context and analyzes the poem "The More Loving One" by W. H. Auden. [1] It discusses how the poem explores the themes of unrequited love and indifference through an extended metaphor comparing the speaker's beloved to stars. [2] The speaker acknowledges that his beloved does not return his feelings and prefers to be the one who loves more greatly, even if his love is unreciprocated. [3] He comes to terms with living without his beloved and hopes that over time he will be able to appreciate life despite the absence of a return of his deep affection.
This document provides context and analyzes the poem "The More Loving One" by W. H. Auden. [1] It discusses how the poem explores the themes of unrequited love and indifference through an extended metaphor comparing the speaker's beloved to stars. [2] The speaker acknowledges that his beloved does not return his feelings and prefers to be the one who loves more greatly, even if his love is unreciprocated. [3] He comes to terms with living without his beloved and hopes that over time he will be able to appreciate life despite the absence of a return of his deep affection.
CONTEXT ● The poem was published in 1957 ● The major themes are “unrequited love” and “indifference” ● In 1939, Auden moved from England to America and after meeting the American poet Chester Kallman, fell madly in love with him ● The two got into a relationship but broke up in 1941 as Kallman did not succumb to Auden’s wish of marriage ● The poem is said to be directed at Kallman by Auden ● However, the poem is universal STANZA 1 Looking up at the stars, I know quite well That, for all they care, I can go to hell, But on earth indifference is the least We have to dread from man or beast. A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS ● In the whole poem, an extended metaphor of stars has been used referring to the speaker’s beloved ● As the speaker looks at his beloved, he knows that the beloved is highly indifferent towards his feelings ● The conventional association of stars with all the positive emotions such as beauty, love, hope, and God’s mercy has been rejected ● Stars are related with the beloved’s indifference ● The speaker projects himself as a realist as he does not go overboard in lamenting the beloved’s indifference ● He believes that this indifference should be the least of the things that one needs to fear from man ● Contextualizing the poem in the post-war times of violence, man can be equated with a beast STANZA 2 How should we like it were stars to burn With a passion for us we could not return? If equal affection cannot be, Let the more loving one be me. A PICTURE IS Being WORTHloved Aby someone and not being able to return their love or loving someone who does not THOUSAND reciprocate your feelings. What is better? WORDS ● The stanza starts with a question, contemplating the reverse situation ● Answered in the next two lines ● If equal affection between the speaker and his beloved is not possible, he prefers to be the more loving one ● Love, despite being unrequited has been taken as a bliss and not as a curse ● The speaker considers being at the receiving end of love, more difficult ● Similar idea has been given by Auden in September 1, 1939
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Craves what it cannot have, Not universal love But to be loved alone” Admirer as I think I am Of stars that do not give a damn, I cannot, now I see them, say I missed one terribly all day. ● Theme of indifference ● The beloved does not care the least about the speaker’s feelings ● Since the two cannot be together, the speaker is considering moving on ● The speaker is trying his best to make himself believe that it is not going to be much difficult to live without his beloved (theme of hope) ● He does not even miss the beloved much now ● The speaker appears to have finally made peace with his emotions ● Realism and hope are apparent ● Instead to mourning like typical lovers, the speaker is preparing himself to live in the absence of the beloved ● He appears hopeful and does not feel like he will die without the beloved ● He will learn to live and appreciate life even in the absence of the beloved ● The speaker is fully aware that his life will become “dark” ● Hopefully, time will heal his wounds or at least numb the pain ● Interestingly, the speaker does not say that his love will end with time ● Instead, he will learn to live with that love and without the beloved Thank You!