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07 Forgiveness and Your Health Part2
07 Forgiveness and Your Health Part2
Mental Health
Training
Written by
Lourdes Morales-Gudmundsson, Ph.D.
Forgiveness requires that you
accept changes
Principle # 10:
Principle # 11:
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true,
whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever
is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is
admirable—if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy—think about such things.”
Philippians 4:8
Forgiving yourself
Not forgiving oneself can
paralyze a person, leaving one
stuck at the point of the
“unforgivable offense.”
Self-forgiveness allows us to
move beyond such offenses
and frees up our energies to
live fully in the present.
Some suggestions toward
self-forgiveness:
Principle # 12:
1.
You can go to your
offender and engage
him/her in a
“confrontation
conversation.
2.
Amber’s story:
3.
Setting new rules for the
relationship. Setting
“boundaries” is important so
that each person understands
what s/he can or cannot do.
4.
It is also important to know when to
call on the intervention of civil
authorities. In cases where the life
of the mother and/or children is in
danger, civil authorities can be
called in to remove the abuser or
the abused from the home.
WHAT IF MY OFFENDER CANNOT
BE CONFRONTED?
• Forgiveness is a
one-way street.
• Reconciliation is a
two-way street.
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