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Friendship and Love
Friendship and Love
By
Rev. Dr. Sulpicio “Pepe” Vincoy, DM-HRM
Mt. 19:3-12
Some Pharisees approached him, and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man
to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?”
He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made
them male and female’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father
and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?
So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”
They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the
woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?”
He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to
divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and
marries another commits adultery.”
[His] disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is
better not to marry.”
He answered, “Not all can accept [this] word, but only those to whom that is
granted.
Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because
they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for
the sake of the kingdom of heaven.
Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.”
Introduction
Jesus, in our gospel reading, put the highest priority on preserving the bond
between husband and wife.
Why Jesus put marriage as the highest priority to be preserved?
The reason is simple.
Man and woman in marriage should no longer be two but one flesh, and what
God has united no mere man can divide it
Marriage is a relationship where love and friendship should be the norm and
ideal.
In any relationship, love and friendship should be the norm and ideal.
Difference between love and friendship:
Love
Friendship
is a feeling of personal
is a relationship
attraction for another
between two or more
person.
people.
Love
Friendship
refers to a romantic
does not involve any
relationship between
such kind of interest.
just two people.
Friendship, a state of enduring affection, esteem, intimacy, and trust
between peoples.
In all cultures, friendships are important relationships throughout a person's
life span.
Many Faces of Love
To have a great
attachment to and
affection for.
To have a great attachment to and affection for.
Once touched by love, our lives can never be the same.
Jesus Christ touched us by giving up His life on the CROSS.
Our model in living this kind of love is no other than our Lord Jesus…
Realities
Realities in Relationships
3. LGBTQ
Single Sex Issues: Homosexuality and Lesbianism
Christians believe that the clear teaching of the Bible enables us to conclude
that nobody should marry someone of the same sex.
The practice of homosexuality was once regarded as some kind of sinister
perversion.
Is sexual orientation a choice?
The hypothalamus is a gland in your brain that controls your hormone
system.
It releases hormones to another part of your brain called the pituitary gland,
which sends hormones out to your different organs.
These include: Adrenals
Adrenal glands, also known as suprarenal glands, are small, triangular-shaped
glands located on top of both kidneys. Adrenal glands produce hormones that
help regulate your metabolism, immune system, blood pressure, response to
stress and other essential functions.
Heaven is our life’s destiny
We may not all be saints and angels, but our Father, who made us all in
heaven have only one wish for us,
to be with Him in His everlasting Kingdom.
Holiness
God’s will is for us to be holy, which
includes avoiding sexual immorality.
“It is God’s will that you should be
sanctified;
That you should avoid sexual immorality;
That each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and
honourable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God.”
(1 Thes. 4:3, 4)
Thoughts as well as actions
• Watch your thoughts; they become words.
• Watch your words; they become actions.
• Watch your actions; they become habits.
• Watch your habits; they become character.
• Watch your character; for it becomes your destiny.
Friendship With Jesus Christ
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Flee sexual immorality.
Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body,
but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you,
whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?
For you have been bought for a price: therefore glorify God in your body.
Proverbs 6:27-29
Can a man take fire in his bosom And his clothes not be burned?
Or can a man walk on hot coals And his feet not be scorched?
So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.
Homosexuality is linked with “sexual perversion.”
“Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.”
(Lev 18:22)
“Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts….
Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the
due penalty for their perversion.”
(Rom 1:26-27)
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God?
Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
Colossians 3:5-6
Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality,
impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry.
For it is because of these things that the wrath of God will come upon the sons
of disobedience.
Romans 13:12-14
The night is almost gone, and the day is near.
Therefore let us lay aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light.
Let us behave properly as in the day, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in
sexual promiscuity and sensuality, not in strife and jealousy.
But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh in regard
to its lusts.
Abstinence makes sense