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Assertiveness 1
Assertiveness 1
Assertiveness 1
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It involves:
• Making decisions
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A commonly believed myth:
To be otherwise,is to be
Passive and ineffectual
but
Assertiveness is a happy
medium between the two
because……..
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AGRESSIVENESS PASSIVENESS
INVOLVES…. INVOLVES….
A total disregard for Undervaluing one’s
others own importance
Getting angry or
Assuming
using verbal force
responsibility for
other’s reactions and
‘ I am superior and emotions
right, you are inferior
and wrong’ ‘My perceptions,
opinions, feelings etc.
Are less important
or correct than those
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of others’
To be (assertive) or not
to be,
the choice is yours……
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Aggressive Behavior
• Leaning forward
• Pointing fingers
• Piercing and glaring eye contact
• Jabbing
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Aggressive Behavior [contd.]
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Aggressive Behavior [contd.]
• Unfriendly
• Humiliated
• Afraid
• Resentful
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Passive Behavior
The body language
• Standing back
• Little / no eye contact
• Smiling even when upset
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Passive Behavior [contd.]
The way you talk
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Passive Behavior [contd.]
The way you feel
• Taken advantage of
• Anxious and frustrated
• Hurt and powerless
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Passive Behavior [contd.]
The way you make others feel
• Frustrated
• Insulting
• Guilty
• Out of patience
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Assertive Behavior
The body language
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Assertive Behavior [contd.]
The way you talk
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Assertive Behavior [contd.]
The way you feel
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Assertive Behavior [contd.]
The way you make others feel
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Verbal Behaviors
Non- assertive
• Respond assertively
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To become assertive
• Express yourself clearly and positively
• Open conversations without hesitating