SELF- INVENTORY A, PP.

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 Sexuality
• It is a person’s biological manhood or
womanhood.

• Generally define as a person’s sexual orientation

• Also refers to the understanding of one’s gender

and the affection or attraction one feels for
another.
INFATUATION/ LOVE
ROMANCE/MARRIAGE
SEX
PRE-MARITAL SEX
PORNOGRAPHY
MASTURBATION
DATING
• THE VOCATION OF LOVE
• LOVE = SEX

LOVE IS AN AUTHENTIC AND UNCONDITIONAL

COMMITMENT TO SERVE EACH OTHER FOR
BETTERVOR FOR WORSE.
• LOVE IS MORE THAN FEELINGS. IT IS THE ACT
OF THE WILL AND OF THE INTELLECT
• IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME, YOU WOULD SHOW
IT BY HAVING SEX WITH ME.
• COME ON, EVERYBODY’S DOING IT. IT’S
GOING TO BE FUN!
• WHAT! YOU’RE STILL A VIRGIN? YOU’RE SO
NOT COOL! YOU HAVE TO TRY IT EVEN JUST
ONCE!
• HAVING SEXUAL YEARNING IS NORMAL…
• TRUE LOVE WAITS…
 MODESTY
SELF CONTROL
CHASTITY
• CHASTITIY- VIRTUE THAT ALLOWS A PERSON
TO SAY “YES” TO TRUE, AUTHENTIC LOVE

• LUST IS NOT LOVE. IT DISTORTS LOVE, IT

LESSENS THE VALUE OF THE PERSON TO MERE
OBJECTS OF PHYSICAL PLEASURE.
 How can we manage our sexual urges or
feelings?
1. Feed our minds of thoughts that would help
us become productive, help us impose self-
discipline, and guide us to healthy
relationship (ex: spiritual readings, prayer
exercises)
2. Get involved in community and religious
activities.
3. Choose the right company of friends.
4. Define and limit oneself to exposure of
opposite sex.
5. Let us discipline ourselves to stay away from
sexually suggestive books, magazines, photos,
movies or web sites.
6. Let us build healthy relationships of
accountability with our parents and spiritual
friends.
7. Let us direct our minds to govern our sexual
expressions within the bounds of our moral
responsibility.
8. Seek God’s help!
• ATTRACTION AND SELF CONTROL
• SELF CONTROL- THE ABILITY SAY “NO” TO
WHATEVER AND WHENEVER OUR BODY FEELS
LIKE DOING OR HAVING SOMETHING.

•It is the ability to refuse to give in to all our bodily pleasures.

 MODESTY

•It is a matter of how you present one’s true beauty or handsomeness.

• YOU ARE WHAT YOU WEAR
• NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF NOT WAITING