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Effective Communication
Try to put yourself in their place: you are considerate, you do not lose your temper,
you do not accuse, you do not charge them without facts.
You are, foremost, aware of their desires, problems, circumstances, emotions, and
probable reactions to your request. Then handle the matter from their point of view.
This thoughtful consideration is called ‘you attitude,’ empathy, the human touch, and
understanding of human nature.
• Three specific ways to indicate consideration,
1. Focus on “you” instead of “I” and “we.”
2. Show audience benefit or interest in the receiver.
3. Emphasize positive, pleasant facts.
Focus on “you” instead of “I” and “we.”
• Using you does help project a you-attitude. But overuse can lead to a
negative reaction.
• Emphasis a point
• I am delighted to announce that we will be extending our hours to
make shopping more convenient.
• You will be able to shop evenings with the extended hours.
• You failed to enclose your check in the envelope.
• The check was not enclosed.
Show audience benefit or
interest in the receiver.
• Readers may react positively when benefits are shown
them.
• Receivers will be more likely to react favorably and do what
you suggest if you show that benefits are worth the effort
and cost you ask them for.
• Stressing what can be done instead of
what cannot be done and focusing on
words your recipient can consider
Emphasize positive, favorably.
pleasant facts
• Misunderstandings of words have produced tragedies in both war and peace, in business and
nonbusiness situations.
• Communicating concretely means being specific, definite, and vivid rather than vague and
general.
• Denotative words (direct, explicit, often dictionary based)
• Connotative words (ideas, or notions suggested by or associated with word or phrase)
Use specific facts and figures
Student GMAT score are higher. In 1996 the GMAT scores average 600; by 1997
they had risen to 610.