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Communication Skills - Newest - Two
Communication Skills - Newest - Two
Communication Skills - Newest - Two
Communication
Communication is like:
A’s private
intentions B’s private
interpretati
ons
What are YOUR filters?
Gender Values
Income
Family Marital
Background Status
Ethnicity
Organizational
Family Norms
Physical Role
Abilities
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Some Examples……………..
• If the superior says “Task
completed but you could have
done better!” It means…….
• If someone says, “I am fine with
whatever decision you take?”
actually means that he/she
………….
• An O.K. actually means --- Yes or
No or Alright or I Understand or
fine or I heard or can be anything
else too!
Filters:
• One filter that one must avoid is
“Generalization”.
Language Fear
Voice Fear
Personality Fear
Stage Fear
Audience Fear
All this leading to
Fear of Failure &
A Complex
COMMUNICATION HAS
…. TWO “ LANGUAGES”
• The ‘ HEARD” • The “ SEEN”
Blah
Blah
THIS
PICTURE
SPEAKS
ONE
THOUSAND
WORDS!
The Relative Merit……………………..
• THE
• “SEEN”
• COMMUNICATION
• HAS
• GREATER IMPACT
• THAN THE
• “SPOKEN”
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Ego related issues! Superior Ego!
• A Superior’s Communication:
• Will be in a Commanding Voice
and tone
• Will refuse to listen
• Will push his agenda
• Will make the other person
bend to his command
• In a transaction, if both the parties are happy; it’s the best one.
• Similarly in Communication; Adult-Adult Transaction is the best.
• START in any ego state; END in ADULT Ego state
• Recommendation:
• Try and stick to Adult ego state – as much as possible..
Perception
People perceive the same thing differently due to
differences in:
attitude,
culture,
beliefs,
background and
profession etc.
Perception-An Example!
C = f(S+E+E)
……Yet another equation ?
•S
• SENSITIVITY is like being ‘pro active’, anticipate the
transaction before it happens.
• “Satyam Bruya, Priyam Bruya; Na Bruya, Satyam Apriyam”
•E
• Is EMPATHY, while listening ‘understand’ the person before
trying to understand what the person is saying.
•E
• Is EMOTION. Cultivate the need to realize in what state of
emotion he/she is , before judging what is being said
COMMUNICATION IS A POWEFUL TOOL,
P+A+C
AN EQUATION FOR RELATIONSHIP
ADD an ‘ S’ IT IMPROVES. ADD TWO “E”s IT SUSTAINS!
ARE WE LOOKING AT” S+P+A+C+E/E” ?
To communicate effectively
• Listen actively
• Efficiently question
• Build rapport
• Empathize