DD ATT 2019

By Mu’az Al-Faqih and

Salmaan
How to help the friend with his dilemma
1. 3.
Get to know Inform him of the
exactly what’s consequences of
causing him to leaving Islam.
feel strong urges
to leave Islam. 2. 4.
Cautiously try to If he insists, leave
persuade him to him and pray to
not leave Islam. Allah for his
guidance.
● We should not make
assumptions, as his reasons may
be personal.
Get to know exactly
● We should find a time to have a
talk with him, and ask him gently what’s causing him to
about his problem.
feel strong urges to
● We should put ourselves in his
shoes so that we could
leave Islam
understand the situation better.
 ● Better to have great knowledge of
Islam first, or we might end up teaching
him the wrong things.

● Cautiously, as the wrong words could

make him drift further away from Islam.
Cautiously try to ● Do not force him to not leave Islam.
persuade him to not
● Recommend him some religious classes
leave Islam or talks, so that he can have a clearer
understanding of Islam.

ِ ‫اَل ِإ ْكَرَاه يِف ا لد‬

...‫ِّين‬ ● Advice him to spend more time on
beneficial things instead of the social
“There shall be no compulsion in media, which could be a negative
[acceptance of] the religion..” - 2:256 influence to him.
● He might be more unwilling to
leave Islam. Inform him of the
● Using dalil from the Qur’an and consequences of
Hadith.
leaving Islam
● Try not to make it into a threat, so
the tone has to be gentle. ‫وَمن يَْبتَ ِغ َغْير اِإْل ْساَل ِم ِدينًا َفلَن يُ ْقبَل ِمْنهُ وُهو يِف‬
َ َ َ َ َ
ِ ِ ِ ِ
َ ‫اآْل خَرة م َن اخْلَاس ِر‬
‫ين‬

“And whoever desires other than Islam

as religion - never will it be accepted
from him, and he, in the Hereafter, will
be among the losers.” - 3:85
If he insists, leave him
and pray to Allah for ● Pray that Allah will guide him back to
Islam.
his guidance
● Do not be influenced by him to leave
Islam.
ِ
ُ‫َأنت تُ ْك ِره‬
َ َ‫ض ُكلُّ ُه ْم مَج ًيعا ۚ َأف‬ ْ ‫ك آَل َم َن َمن يِف‬
ِ ‫اَأْلر‬ َ ُّ‫َولَ ْو َشاءَ َرب‬ ● Keep caring for him, as he is a friend.
‫ني‬ ِِ
َ ‫َّاس َحىَّت ٰ يَ ُكونُوا ُمْؤ من‬
َ ‫الن‬
“And had your Lord willed, those on earth
would have believed - all of them entirely. Then,
[O Muhammad], would you compel the people
in order that they become believers?” - 10:99
Dalil
ِ ِ‫انفصام هَل ا ۗ واللَّه مَس‬
ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ُّ ‫اَل ِإ ْكراه يِف الدِّي ِن ۖ قَد تَّبنَّي‬
‫يم‬ ٌ ُ َ َ َ َ ‫ك بِالْعُْرَوة الْ ُوْث َق ٰى اَل‬
ٌ ‫يع َعل‬ ْ ‫الر ْش ُد م َن الْغَ ِّي ۚ فَ َمن يَ ْك ُف ْر بِالطَّاغُوت َويُْؤ من بِاللَّه َف َقد‬
َ ‫استَ ْم َس‬ ََ ََ
“There shall be no compulsion in [acceptance of] the religion. The right course has become clear from the wrong. So whoever disbelieves in Taghut and believes in
Allah has grasped the most trustworthy handhold with no break in it. And Allah is Hearing and Knowing.” - 2:256

ِ ِ ِ ِ ‫يِف‬ ِ ِ ِ
َ ‫َوَمن َيْبتَ ِغ َغْيَر اِإْل ْساَل م دينًا َفلَن يُ ْقبَ َل مْنهُ َوُه َو اآْل خَرة م َن اخْلَاس ِر‬
‫ين‬

“And whoever desires other than Islam as religion - never will it be accepted from him, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers.” - 3:85

ِِ ِ َ َ‫ض ُكلُّ ُه ْم مَجِ ًيعا ۚ َأف‬

‫ني‬
َ ‫َّاس َحىَّت ٰ يَ ُكونُوا ُمْؤ من‬
َ ‫َأنت تُ ْكرهُ الن‬ ْ ‫ك آَل َم َن َمن يِف‬
ِ ‫اَأْلر‬ َ ُّ‫َولَ ْو َشاءَ َرب‬
“And had your Lord willed, those on earth would have believed - all of them entirely. Then, [O Muhammad], would you compel the people in order that they
become believers?” - 10:99
Dalil

‫صْي ِط ٍر‬ ‫مِب‬

َ ُ ‫ت َعلَْي ِهم‬
َ ‫لَّ ْس‬ 0 َ ‫فَ َذ ِّك ْر ِإمَّنَا‬
‫َأنت ُم َذ ِّكٌر‬
“So remind, [O Muhammad]; you are only a reminder. You are not over them a controller.” 88:21-22

ِِ ُّ ِ‫وه ْم َوُت ْق ِسطُوا ِإلَْي ِه ْم ۚ ِإ َّن اللَّهَ حُي‬ ِ ِ ِ َّ

‫ني‬
َ ‫ب الْ ُم ْقسط‬ ُ ‫ين مَلْ يُ َقاتلُوُك ْم يِف الدِّي ِن َومَلْ خُيْ ِر ُجوُكم ِّمن ديَا ِرُك ْم َأن َتَبُّر‬
َ ‫اَّل َيْن َها ُك ُم اللَّهُ َع ِن الذ‬
“Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting
justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly.” - 60:8
Thank you