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Counseling
Counseling
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What is Counselling:
Know the
Market
The Counselor Search…cont.
• Identify your
interests & goals.
• Evaluate your KNOW
qualifications.
YOURSELF
• Choose job objective.
The Counselor Search…cont.
KNOW THE
MARKET
Active
Responding Questioning
Listening
Phases of Counseling…cont.
Eye contact.
Maintaining eye contact without
staring helps show interest.
Body Posture:
Being relaxed and comfortable will help
put the client at ease.
Phases of Counseling…cont.
Head nods:
Occasionally nodding your head while
keeping eye contact, shows the client’s
that you’re paying attention,
encourages client’s to continue.
Facial expressions:
Keep your facial expressions natural and
relaxed. No blank or fixed expression,
this may disturb the client.
Phases of Counseling…cont.
Verbal expressions
Responding
Questioning
Although questioning is a necessary skill, you
must use it with caution.
During a leadership developmental review, ask
questions to obtain information or to get the
client to think about a particular situation. The
question should be open-ended so as to evoke
more than a yes or no answer. Questions will
help to verify understanding, encourage further
explanation, or help the client move through
the stages of the counseling session.
Basic Questions Skills
• To begin an interview.
• To encourage client elaboration.
• To elicit specific examples.
• To motivate clients to communicate.
Closed vs Open-Ended Questions
Counselor:
“You know you need to avoid staying in
bed or sitting around all day to help
your depression.”
Paraphrasing…cont.
Example 2
Client, a 40-year-old woman: “How can I
tell my husband I want a divorce? He’ll
think I’m crazy. I guess I’m just afraid to
tell him.”
• Steps
1.Recall the message and restate it to
yourself.
2. Identify the content part of the message
Wants divorce, but hasn’t told husband
because he will think she’s crazy.
Purpose of Paraphrasing
Steps
• Listen for obvious feeling words.
• Watch nonverbal behavior.
• What feelings are implied in the client’s
nonverbal behavior? E.g., disgust, anger,
upset, frustration, discouragement
• Verbally reflect the feelings back to the
client.
Purpose of Reflection of Feeling