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Glorify God. Make Disciples

Proverbs 24:3-4 New International Version
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By wisdom a house is built,
and through understanding it is established;
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through knowledge its rooms are filled
with rare and beautiful treasures.
Many of us are willing to spend years in school
receiving an education that we believe will
prepare us for success in our chosen career or
profession.
If we are so careful about planning for
career success, why aren’t we just as
careful about planning for success in
marriage?
The problem is that there are many people who
have successful careers but failed marriages
because they spent much time learning how to get
along with their boss and no time learning how to
get along with their spouse.
Just like building a house, a successful marriage is
the product of careful planning and deliberate
design, the right material, good advice, and
qualified contractors.
Therefore we must become students of
the Word of God, fluent in the spiritual
principles that govern life.
Proverbs 4:7
King James Version
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Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore
get wisdom: and with all thy getting get
understanding.
Ten foundation stones upon which to build a happy and
successful marriage.

1. Love 6. Submission
2. Truth 7. Knowledge
3. Trust 8. Faithfulness
4. Commitment 9. Patience
5. Respect 10.Financial Stability
 Love is certainly important, even
critical, but let’s be practical. Love
won’t pay the rent or put food on the
table.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

1. A man is a logical thinker while a

woman is an emotional feeler.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

2. For a woman, language spoken is an

expression of what she is feeling. For a man,
language spoken is an expression of what he is
thinking.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

3. Language that is heard by a woman is an

emotional experience. Language that is heard by
a man is the receiving of information.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

4. Women tend to take everything personally.

Men tend to take every- thing impersonally.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

5. Women are interested in the details. Men are

interested in the principle the abstract or the
philosophy.
 To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

6. In material things, women tend to look at

goals only. Men want to know the details of how
to get there.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

7. In spiritual or intangible things, men look at

goals. Women want to know how to get there.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

8. A man’s mind is like a filing cabinet. A

woman’s mind is like a computer.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

9. A woman’s home is an extension of her

personality. A man’s job is an extension of his
personality.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

10. Men can be nomadic. Women need

security and roots.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

11. Women tend to be guilt prone. Men tend to

be resentful.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

12. Men are stable and level off. Women are

always changing.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

13. Women tend to become involved more

easily and more quickly than men do. Men
tend to stand back and evaluate before they get
involved.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

14. Men need to be told again and again.

Women never forget.
To build up a positive support team we must
understand each other strengths and weaknesses;

15. Men tend to remember the gist of things

rather than the details. Women tend to
remember the details and sometimes distort the
gist.
WAYS TO BLESS
YOUR HUSBAND
“A wife can be a blessing to her husband
by honouring him as the church honours
Christ and giving him specific gifts of
love.”
1.Give him admiration and respect
Work to understand and appreciate his
value and achievements as his wife.
Remind him of his capabilities and gifts and
help him maintain his walk with God and
also his self confidence.
1.Give him admiration and respect
Be proud of your husband, not out of duty,
but as an expression of sincere admiration
for the man you love and with whom you
have chosen to share your life.(Ephesians
5:22-23,33)
2.Provide sexual fulfillment
Become an excellent sexual partner for him.
Study your own response to recognize and
understand what brings the best in you; then
communicate this information to your
husband and together learn a sexual
relationship
2.Provide sexual fulfillment
that both of you find repeatedly satisfying
and enjoyable. (Proverbs 5:5-19; Songs of
Solomon 4:9-5:1;1 C0rintian 7:1-
5;Hebrews 13:4)
3.Cultivate Home Support
Create a home that offers him an
atmosphere of peace and quite and refuge.
Manage the home and care of the children.
The home should be a place of rest and
rejuvenation. Remember the woman is the
emotional hub of the family
4.Strive to be a attractive wife
Pursue inner and outer beauty in that order.
Cultivate a Christlike spirit in your inner
self. Keep yourself physically fit with diet
and exercise, wear your hair, make up, and
clothes in a way your husband find you
attractive and tasteful.
4.Strive to be a attractive wife
Let your husband be pleased and proud of
you in the public, but also in private (Songs
of Solomon 1:8-10,2:2,6:13-7:9;1 Peter
3:15)
5.Become his best friend
Develop mutual interests with your
husband. Discover those activities your
husband enjoys the most and seek to
become proficient with them. If you learn
to enjoy them, join in them. If you do not
enjoy them, encourage him to consider
5.Become his best friend
others that you enjoy that you can enjoy
together. Become your husband’s best
friend so that he repeatedly associates you
with the activities he enjoys most.(Songs of
Solomon 8:1-2,6)