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Module2 - Session 1 - 4
Module2 - Session 1 - 4
Orientation and
Counseling (PMOC)
Module II
4-6 DECEMBER 2023
LMET, Diadi, Nueva Vizcaya
INTRODUCTION TO THE
PART II: PMOC MANUAL
The second part of this manual introduces
the process in providing counseling to
would-be-married couple/s particularly those
that are aged 18-25 years old as required
under Article 16 of the Executive Order (EO)
No. 209 or the “Family Code of the
Philippines of 1987”.
Performance Objective:
At the end of the Counseling, the would-be-married couple/s are
able to discover the differences and similarities on their
marriage expectations and the factors which influences those
perspectives including the manner of coping-up and
communicating to resolve identified conflicts including other
challenges that may affect their future married life.
Enabling Objectives:Objectives:
ctives:
Specifically, this session shall enable participants to:
1. Describe one’s self as a person and their future spouse;
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reasons behind your differences
PROCESSING QUESTIONS
• What do you think of your responses on your MEI form?
• Why is it important for you to know some relevant factors which
influenced your differences?
• How do you think those factors that were discussed have influenced
your responses on your MEI Form?
• What struck you most about this session?
• What were your insights, realizations, and learning from this
session?
Biological Differences
• How the monthly period affects the
woman.
• Hormonal imbalances
Family Influences
• Marriage of 2 persons is actually a
marriage of 6 persons
KEY LEARNING MESSAGES/INPUTS
EXPERIENCE SHARING
(Outcomes/Results)
Procedure
The counselor and/or co-facilitators shall:
This activity is not really all about conflict resolution, what is being
emphasized in this activity is the value of communication, the
importance of talking and discussing things you do not agree on or are
significant to you because the biggest communication problem is we do
not listen to understand, we listen to reply. Thus, this is just a practice
to listen, talk, and express your thoughts which will create long
lasting connection with your partner, and as the saying goes, practice
makes things permanent ☺
“To sustain love, we have to learn how to negotiate differences of all
kinds, and to speak to each other in ways that allows us to be heard,
that allows us to be received. “–Dee Watts-Jones
Important Note
The things you have discovered from your partner are necessary in
settling your differences and communicating what is acceptable in
your marriage. This session will not yet solve the problems in your
marriage, but is an overview of what lies ahead.
SESSION 4:
Lifetime Commitment
SESSION OBJECTIVE:
“Expectations are not only what you want from your partner, they are also
what you are willing to give”.