The document discusses various aspects of effective listening. It notes that listening involves consciously processing auditory information perceived through hearing. Good listening involves paying attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues like body language and eye contact. It is important to not interrupt, reassure the speaker, analyze tone, use silence effectively, and ask clarifying questions when needed. Active listening shows the speaker you are engaged and helps ensure accurate understanding.
The document discusses various aspects of effective listening. It notes that listening involves consciously processing auditory information perceived through hearing. Good listening involves paying attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues like body language and eye contact. It is important to not interrupt, reassure the speaker, analyze tone, use silence effectively, and ask clarifying questions when needed. Active listening shows the speaker you are engaged and helps ensure accurate understanding.
The document discusses various aspects of effective listening. It notes that listening involves consciously processing auditory information perceived through hearing. Good listening involves paying attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues like body language and eye contact. It is important to not interrupt, reassure the speaker, analyze tone, use silence effectively, and ask clarifying questions when needed. Active listening shows the speaker you are engaged and helps ensure accurate understanding.
The document discusses various aspects of effective listening. It notes that listening involves consciously processing auditory information perceived through hearing. Good listening involves paying attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues like body language and eye contact. It is important to not interrupt, reassure the speaker, analyze tone, use silence effectively, and ask clarifying questions when needed. Active listening shows the speaker you are engaged and helps ensure accurate understanding.
• Listening is the conscious processing of the auditory stimuli that have
been perceived through hearing. • Listening differs from obeying. Parents may commonly conflate the two, by telling a disobedient child that he "didn't listen to me". However, a person who receives and understands information or an instruction, and then chooses not to comply with it or to agree to it, has listened to the speaker, even though the result is not what the speaker wanted. Essentials of Good listening and tips • Attention • Body language • Eye contact • Reassure the speaker • Do not interrupt • Analyze the tone • Effective use of silence • Clarification Attention Attention may be defined as the visual portion of concentration on the speaker. Through eye contact and other body language, we communicate to the speaker that we are paying close attention to his/her messages. All the time we are reading the verbal and nonverbal cues from the speaker, the speaker is reading ours. What messages are we sending out? If we lean forward a little and focus our eyes on the person, the message is we are paying close attention. Body language • A lot of communication is non-verbal. Therefore, one need to pay attention to the body language and that of the speaker while engaging in a conversation. Avoid fidgeting with things and hands, tapping foot or rearranging papers on desk, as these actions indicate the disinterest in the conversation. One need to use their eyes and ears in tandem and maintain eye contact while listening. An occasional nod of the head will indicate the acceptance and interest. Eye contact • Eye contact is important when listening. If listener give the speaker the impression of not being interested and are distracted, they may never open up again. When someone is talking , focusing directly on their eyes so that they will know with certainty of absorbing every single word.Even if the topic is not interesting , respecting and truly listening to what the speaker has to say. Reassure the speaker • Communicating and letting the conclusion of the conversation, known to the speaker is a good practice. Making it clear that listener is open to further discussion .In addition, reassuring the speaker of the intention to keep the discussion confidential. Do not interrupt • Not interrupting the speaker with what they feel or think about the "telling". Instead, wait for the other person to ask the opinion before breaking the flow of their discourse. Active listening requires the listener to shelve his or her own opinions temporarily and patiently await appropriate breaks in conversation. When the conversation breaks, provide a summary or an empathetic concurrence.If listener interrupt the person too soon, then the speaker will be frustrated and won't fully absorb what listener is saying. This will cause miscommunication and distraction . Analyze the tone • Volume and tone both add to what someone is saying.A good speaker will use both volume and tone to their advantage to keep an audience attentive; everybody will use pitch, tone and volume of voice in certain situations – let these help listener to understand the emphasis of what is being said. Effective Use of silence • For effective active or empathic listening use silence appropriately. Allow for comfortable silences to slow down the exchange. Give the person time to think as well as talk.Silence can also be very helpful in diffusing an unproductive interaction. Clarification • The process of bringing vague material into sharper focus.To untangle unclear or wrong listener interpretation.To get more information.To help the speaker see other points of view. To identify what was said.