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The real self is the person you actually are. It is how you behave right at
the moment of a situation. It is who you really in reality – how you
think, feel, or act at present (Rogers, C. 1959; Gale, C.l. 2015; Eyesenck,
M.V., 2014; Brower, I.B., 2014).
Multiple versus Unified Self
• The constructions of multiple selves vary across different interpersonal and
intrapersonal roles and relationships. “Properly speaking, a man has many
social selves as there are individuals who recognize him in their head” James
(1890).
• Winnicott has found that the self is composed of the true self and the false
self. Functions:false self – hide and protect the true self. Researchers have
found that adolescents’ perceptions of themselves can change depending on
the situation. For instance, adolescents are more likely to show their false
self during dating situations and are likely to show their true self when they
are with their family and close friends. In other words adolescents display a
falseself to impress others. Adolescents develop different selves in various
relational contexts.
Allport’s Personality Theory
• PsychologistGordon Allport (1961) proposed his “personality trait” theory
asserting that every person possesses “traits”. According to him, a “trait” is your
essential characteristic tat never, ever changes and sticks with you all your life.
These traits also shape who you are (the way you think, feel, or behave, etc.) in any
given time (Hall &Lindzey, 1957; Morris, et al., 2002).
• The ego states
Psychiatrist Eric Berne (1960), began to develop his transactional analysis
model as basis for understanding behavior. Transactional analysis is anchored on two
notions:
• Every person has three parts called “ego states” in his or her personality.
• People communicate with oone another assuming roles of any of these ego states:
1. Parent 2. Adult 3. Child
• Parent Ego – voice of authority and could be: comforting “nurturing”
parent or “controlling/critical parent” voice that tells what you should
or not do.
• Adult Ego – it is the rational person. It is the voice that speaks
reasonably and knows how to assert himself or herself.
• Child Ego has three states: 1. The curious child who loves to play but
is sensitive and vulnerable. 2. The little professor is the curious child
who wants to try everything, and 3. The adaptive child I the one who
reacts to the world (Berne, 2016).
Domains of the Self
Gregg henriques, a university professor and a author proposed tat the human
self has three related, but separratble, domains. These are:
1) Experiential self
• The theater of consciousness because it is the first to experience its
beingness (the state or fact of existing). It is also closely ties to memory. 2)
Private self
• The narrator or interpreter. It is the self that narrates the unfolding events at
the same time tries to make sense of the experience.
3) Public self/persona
• It is the image you project to the public. This is the image that interacts with
others and will influence how others see you.