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Theology 2 Unit 3: Lesson B Proximate Preparation For Marriage 1. Dating 2. Courtship 3. Engagement
Theology 2 Unit 3: Lesson B Proximate Preparation For Marriage 1. Dating 2. Courtship 3. Engagement
Theology 2 Unit 3: Lesson B Proximate Preparation For Marriage 1. Dating 2. Courtship 3. Engagement
UNIT 3: LESSON B
PROXIMATE PREPARATION
FOR MARRIAGE
1. DATING
2. COURTSHIP
3. ENGAGEMENT
Case Study:
Look for two celebrity couples
a) who had a whirlwind romance that failed, and
b) one who endured and ends up in a successful
marriage.
1. If you were one of the couples, what do you do to adjust
to the differences in your partner without losing who
you are before entering marriage?
2. What are the discernable traits that made their
relationship thriving?
In this day and age,
are dating, courtship, and
engagement still relevant?
Write a Literature Review on the popular concepts of Dating,
Courtship, and Engagement.
1. DATING IN GENERAL
❑ Western culture.
Marriage is typically
preceded by a period of
dating. Dating is, in its
broadest sense, getting
to know someone and
letting them get to
know you so that you
can decide whether you
are interested in
spending more time
together.
❑ Philippine context
Dating, courtship, and
engagement are
passages of marriage
between the couples to
see and exercise due
diligence for the proper
and acceptable
progression of love
before transcending it
into a lifetime
relationship.
Psych2Go. The 8 Stages of Dating. January 5, 2020. Video:
5:19. https://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=X6Hk7hIAStw&t=2s
Casual dating.
Committed dating.
Typically nonexclusive,
Much more serious than
that is, one or both of the
casual dating and is
individuals may also
normally perceived as an
have dating relationships
exclusive relationship.
with other people.
2. COURTSHIP
❑ An act of seeking to gain love
or affection with a view
toward marriage. American Heritage
Dictionary
Three Phases of
Courtship :
❑ Exploration
❑ Confirmation
❑ Pledging
❑ Exploration
Courtship is not for strangers.
Only after the couple develops a
friendship should courtship be
considered.
To enter the exploration phase of
courtship is to acknowledge that
marriage is a possibility but not a
promise.
The basic purpose of this phase is to
allow the couple to explore and
discover their own emotions beyond
that of simple friendship.
❑ Confirmation
❖ The couple gets to know each another
more deeply.
❖ The couple learns lessons of give and
take, overcoming frustrations, and
handling jealousies, insecurities,
misunderstandings, tenderness, and
the exaltation of the other.
❑Pledging
❖The time when a new
community is created deep
in the soul.
❖During this phase of
emotional maturation, the
image of marriage is
exchanged for the reality.
❖ There is absolute
solidarity of thinking and
feelings toward each other.
• At the end of a
successful courtship
is engagement.
• An engagement ring
is appropriate, along
with a public
announcement of the
intentions of the
couple to be married
in the future.
1. DATING
Courtship is an intentional and purposeful process carried out with marriage as the
ultimate goal.
It assumes and requires age-readiness for marriage while dating does not. Courtship
presupposes the possibility of an actual mature love relationship that will lead to
engagement hence a personal and mutual commitment of two people willing to
investigate the possibility of marriage.
Courtship is not a
guarantee of engagement
or marriage but a
controlled step toward it;
it must have some
objective guides that will
allow either party to stop
the process or slow it
down.
Courtship stage is where one learns
to:
First, imbibe the virtues that are
necessary for sustaining a healthy and
life-long relationship;