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Communication (MC)
Topic:- Listening skills
MBA(GIA)
What is hearing?
Hearing is a passive process. It does not require any conscious
effort on our part. We can hear sounds even when we are not
paying attention.
What is listening?
Listening is the active process of receiving, understanding, and responding to spoken or
written messages. It requires attention, focus, and effort. Listening is essential for effective
communication, as it allows us to build relationships, learn new information, and solve
problems.
Here is a practical example explaining the difference between hearing and listening:
You are sitting in a coffee shop with a friend who is talking about a
difficult problem they are having at work. You are listening to them,
but you are also thinking about what you are going to say when they
are finished talking. You are not fully paying attention to what they
are saying, and you are not trying to understand their perspective.
This is an example of hearing but not listening. You can hear the
sounds of your friend's voice, but you are not fully engaged with
what they are saying.
Now, imagine that you are sitting in the coffee shop with your friend, and you are giving
them your full attention. You are making eye contact, nodding your head, and asking
clarifying questions. You are trying to understand the problem from their perspective, and
you are not thinking about what you are going to say next.
Features of a good listener in managerial
Features of communication.
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Being a good listener in managerial
Listener communication is a valuable skill that fosters
effective leadership and team collaboration.
Here are the features of a good listener in a
managerial context:
Attentiveness:
Good listeners pay full attention to the speaker,
making them feel valued and respected. They avoid
distractions and stay focused on the conversation.
Open-mindedness:
They approach conversations with an open and
nonjudgmental mindset, allowing for diverse viewpoints and
ideas to be expressed.
Patience:
Effective listeners are patient, allowing the speaker to
express themselves fully without interrupting or rushing the
conversation.
Nonverbal Cues:
Good listeners use positive nonverbal cues, such as maintaining eye
contact, nodding, and using facial expressions that convey interest and
engagement.
Feedback:
They provide constructive feedback when appropriate,
acknowledging the speaker's points and contributing to the
conversation in a meaningful way.
Respect for Silence:
Effective listeners are comfortable with moments of
silence, allowing the speaker time to gather their thoughts
or express themselves without feeling rushed.
Adaptability:
They adapt their listening style to the speaker's needs
and communication preferences, recognizing that different
people may require different approaches.
Conflict Resolution:
Good listeners can mediate and help resolve conflicts
by actively listening to both sides and facilitating a
constructive dialogue.
Trustworthiness:
They maintain confidentiality and create a safe space for
open and honest communication, building trust with their
team members.
Feedback Loop:
They often seek feedback from the speaker to confirm their
understanding and ensure that the message was received as intended.
Follow-Up:
Effective listeners follow up on conversations and
commitments, demonstrating their commitment to taking action
based on what was discussed.
Advisory Role:
In managerial roles, good listeners may also offer guidance, support,
and solutions when appropriate, while still prioritizing the speaker's
perspective.
Cultural Sensitivity:
They are aware of and respectful of cultural differences that may
affect communication, ensuring their listening approach is culturally
sensitive.
Ethical Listening:
They adhere to ethical principles, such as respecting confidentiality
and not using information shared inappropriately.
Therapeutic Counseling:
In therapy or counseling sessions, good listening is
essential for therapists to understand their clients' issues,
feelings, and thoughts, and to offer effective support and
guidance.
Customer Service:
In customer service roles, listening is vital for
understanding customer concerns and needs. Effective listening
can lead to better customer satisfaction and problem resolution.
Education: Teachers who listen attentively to their students can
adapt their teaching methods, address individual learning needs, and
provide a more engaging and effective educational experience.
Selective Hearing:
Poor listeners often pick and choose what they want to hear, focusing on information
that aligns with their preconceived notions or interests while ignoring or dismissing other
important points.
For example, imagine that someone started talking to you while you
were trying to finish watching an episode of a TV show. Chances are
good that you didn't hear much of what they said to you. Your brain
prioritized the sound of the TV over that person's voice because your
goal was to finish watching the show.
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Interrupting:
They frequently interrupt the speaker before they've finished their thoughts, which can be
disrespectful and disrupt the flow of communication.
Preoccupation:
Poor listeners may be mentally preoccupied with their own
thoughts, concerns, or tasks, making it difficult for them to fully engage
in the conversation.
Example:-
thinking or worrying about something too much: She's been very
preoccupied recently because her mother has been very ill.
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Judgmental Attitude:
They may quickly form judgments or assumptions about what the speaker
is saying, which can lead to misunderstandings and hinder open and honest
communication.
Lack of Empathy:
Poor listeners often struggle to empathize with the speaker's perspective, emotions, or
experiences, making it challenging to connect on a deeper level.
Example:-
Lack of empathy may also blame the person for what
they're experiencing. For example, they may say things like,
“If you didn't do those things, you wouldn't be in trouble
now.”
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Impatience:
They may exhibit impatience, wanting to rush through conversations or
get to the point quickly, without allowing the speaker to express themselves
fully.
Defensive Behavior:
Poor listeners may become defensive when faced
with criticism or differing opinions, making it challenging
for others to share their perspectives openly.
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Inattentiveness:
They may appear disengaged, such as checking their phone,
looking around the room, or appearing bored during the
conversation.
Lack of Feedback:
Poor listeners often provide minimal or no feedback,
which can leave the speaker uncertain about whether their
message was understood or valued.
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