Learning Outcomes: At the end of this chapter, the learner is expected to;
1. Understand the meaning of materialist concepts;
2. Determine the causes of materialism;
3. Identi fy the impact of materialism and consumerism on the “self ”
and,
4. Appreciate unique ways to att ain happiness.
THE NATURE OF MATERIALISM
MATERIALISM purports that all that is
found in the universe is matter which is the substance of nature. It suggests therefore that material possession is all that matters most. Success, happiness and the essence of individual existence are gauged by material prosperity which one has gained in a lifetime. THE NATURE OF MATERIALISM Western cultures have encouraged materialism among people now as they seek for happiness and life satisfaction. The pursuit of happiness is largely anchored on what we can buy, how quick we can adapt to the changes in technology as well as how well we can keep pace with the status quo. The capacity to spend has become the fundamental standard to show power, control and happiness for being able to acquire whatever you materially desire to acquire. THE NATURE OF MATERIALISM As resources continually become scarce, economists and even environmentalists continue to reiterate on the need to focus on needs rather than wants and desires. However, as human nature dictates, we are blinded by the growing consumerism and commercialism around us. Our self-esteem, as well as self-worth, has been greatly determined by our accumulation of objects. This behavior is even reinforced by social media as we post daily statuses on buying a new pair of shoes, to purchasing an over rated coffee and having a vacation of a lifetime. REASONS OF Material possessions provide M several effects on the individual A whether it is personal, intellectual or T E emotional. Varied motivations agitate R the individual to pursue more and I A amass more of the money, gadgets, L vehicles, jewelry and the like I S regardless of their realistic needs. M CONSUMERISM IS MOTIVATED BY THE FOLLOWING REASONS: 1. It is alleged that material 3. It is alleged that material possessions provide these wealth boost their self- individuals with a feeling esteem and self-confidence of security as their money as they believe that they and property provide process those assets that them with tangible assets; not everybody has; and 2. It is alleged that wealth 4. It is alleged that gives them a sense of cherished wealth provides well-being as they alleged an individual with more that this material wealth friends and relationships provides them with through greater interaction. happiness; The Concept of Self-Gift The SELF is the primary object of one’s journey through life. It is interesting enough to know that one desire to work for personal consumption and gratification. However the act and behavior of collecting goods and providing gifts to the self is considered as materialism. This is a way to communicate with the self as influenced by one’s culture and immediate environment. 1. Materialism is often associated with self- centeredness. Often the individual would prefer to be indifferent of others as well as separate from the majority. The need to be alone and alienated is imminent. SELF- CENTEREDNESS means prioritizing the self while showing evident lack of empathy on the plight of others; Three factors determine 2. Materialism define success according to how that self- much wealth and property was amassed. They usually utilize possessions in self-definition. They have gifts are the evident tendency to define success in terms od the revelations quality and amount of one’s acquired wealth. of an individual’s 3. Materialist believe that happiness results from materialism the relationship between buying and consumption. . Self-Gift can be source of intense happiness among materialist. It provides them with very positive emotions. Self-gift prevents negative emotions such as depression, emptiness and sadness as it provides therapy to the materialist. The Correlates of Materialism 1. Materialism and happiness reportedly do not go well together as it was shown that people who value possessions and material wealth over other more significant life goals are said to be less happy and are more prone to depressions; 2. Materialism and self-esteem show an inverted relationship. 3. Materialism and financial stability show an inverted relationship as well. 4. Materialism and well-being manifest opposite relationship as individuals practicing this principle tend to isolate themselves from the significant others as they continue try to derive gratification from amassing objects rather than interacting with the people around them. 6. Materialism and self-concept prove how insecurity motivates people to work so hard for material possessions as the same wealth becomes their source of security. 7. Materialism and lack of engagement mean losing one’s ability to empathize with others as they become callous to other people’s needs. According to Gregoire (2017) Materialism makes people unhappy for the following reasons: 1. Consumer culture may be harming individual well-being. Young adults born in this period of affluence are less happy and are subjected to risk of depression and mental disorder as their well being is not positively influenced by consumerism. 2. Materialistic values are linked to Type-A Behavior. Those who are highly ambitious are highly competitive and materialistic. A 2008 study published in the Journal of Pacific Rim Psychology supported the revelations that Type-A qualities include the motivation to acquire much wealth and material possessions and are highly aggressive as well. 3. Money really can’t buy happiness. 4. Materialism could ruin your relationship. 5. Consumer cultures may breed narcissistic personalities. Narcissistic are highly arrogant as they deeply concerned with inadequacy. The Pursuit of Happiness As materialism afflicts both rich and poor it is something that has to be rectified before it destroys the individual. Every individual now tend to focus more on their ‘social image’. How people look up them and follow them in their social media accounts have become the valued daily activity on social media sites. It seems like people have clamored so much for affirmation and recognition which prompts them to post online all the objects that they acquire. So the ultimate question is how do we really experience happiness about who we are and what we have in its genuine sense? Various ways to appreciate our own uniqueness and be genuinely joyous about it.
1. Learn to share your blessings no matter how simple it
is; 2. Improve your self-esteem and self-worth by engaging in worthwhile activities; 3. Learn to communicate and relate with people around you; 4. Take time to appreciate the beauty of life and God’s creations; 5. Be grateful to those who compliment you by returning the favor; 6. Focus on your strengths and not on your flaws; 7. Stop projecting on media accounts about what you have and others do not; 8. Learn to let go of things that are not significantly needed; 9. Develop a mantra to counter the negativities entering your thoughts; and 10. Stop brewing on negativities and on hurtful past. Focus on the future and what you can do to be productive and happy.