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What Genesis Teaches - 1.3 Helper 47Fr
What Genesis Teaches - 1.3 Helper 47Fr
about
Marriage:
Man’s Helper
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PCJB
PP Presentation
devised and prepared
at
Gujranwala Theological Seminary
may be copied for non-commercial use
only
September 2008
The First Gardener
At the beginning of human
history
God made the first man,
endowed him with life,
and
placed him in a garden
Another Lack
But there was a problem.
Just as there was at first
no man to farm the earth,
there is another lack:
No helper for the man
to assist him to look after the
garden.
Genesis 2:18
“A Suitable Helper”
The Lord God said,
“It is not good for the man
to be alone.
I will make a helper
suitable for him.”
To Discuss:
(Can she cook?)
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Companionable
(no longer “alone”)
Congenial
(unlike the animals, “bone of my bone”)
Compatible / Complementary
(“suitable” “neged”- literally: “like opposite
him”)
Genesis 2:18
“Alone”
Imagine the scene:
Poor Adam is lonely,
and as the wonders of creation
are presented before him
there is only emptiness inside.
The companionship of the dog, goat
or horse
was entirely insufficient for his
needs.
Genesis 2:18
“Alone”
Really?....
Think again!
Genesis 2:18
“A Helper”
“It is not Or :
good for the
man to be Needing another to
help him?
alone.
“A helper fit for him”
I will make Adam’s observed need:
a helper a helper
Genesis 2:4-23
“A Helper”
Note:
Friendship within a loving
marriage
can overcome feelings of
loneliness.,
but
Scripture never says the purpose
of marriage
Genesis 2:4-23
“A Helper”
Note:
Non-reversible Task Role
(nowhere is the man called the
woman’s “helper”!)
Note:
The Hebrew word for “helper” is
ezer,
and not “ebed”
which is a ‘servant’.
The woman is to be a helper for man
and not a slave to him.
To Discuss:
(Need A Helping Hand?)
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Woman’s Role:
Assisting in filling and subduing the
earth
(procreation and care)
Genesis 2:4-23
“A Helper”
‘ezer (( עזר
is normally used to describe
the aid of God coming to the
rescue.
To imagine an inferiority
when the term normally applies to
God
is unthinkable!
Women are not inferior to men!
Man’s Task
God put Adam in the garden
to look after it:
“To work it
and
to care for it.”
But Adam could not cope with this
task
“alone”.
Marriage Order
Important to distinguish
the functioning subordination in
role of a wife
from
an essential equality with her
husband
before God,
since both are made in God’s
To Discuss:
(“A mere woman!”)
Why Woman?
• What is it about woman that
answers
the incompleteness of man?
What is it that makes what is not
good
into something which is?
Why Woman?
The Hebrew word for
the compatibility of women,
literally translates as
‘like opposite him’.
Not the same but the counterpart,
the complementary partner
in the enterprise given to man.
Why Woman?
Not a case of two being better
than one;
(Another man would have been
more useful for manual labour!)
There is something unique
between the man and the woman
that fulfils the task.
The unique relationship of vs.24,
which includes sex as part of the
To Discuss:
(She’s Special!)
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Sex
Sex
A delicate subject?